in response to Windy104... Windy - I sincerely feel bad for you regarding the loss of your husband. However, I can't understand why you, and so many other Americans, have children they can't afford? You have four children, WHY? Can you afford four kids? As Dr. Phil says, "what were you thinking?" Children are expensive and require RESPONSIBLE adults, not just someone who can get pregnant. Prior to becoming pregnant the first time did you and your husband make responsible decisions?; i.e., did you consider funding sources, healthcare coverage (not from the government), life insurance, etc?
